10 Things Guys need To Stop Doing.

It has become a normal thing to hear that time is not on a woman’s side in respect of getting married and having kids. But, the truth is; time is not on the guys’ side either. If a man has got dreams and aspirations to fulfil, then he has to know that time is not going to wait for him also. This is why guys must stop doing a couple of things that they are doing to achieve more in life.

1. Stop saying there is no woman to date: There are women all around and not all of them are bad as you paint them. The generalization is probably why you can’t see diamonds among pebbles. There is your type of woman out there. Sometimes, you just need to step out of the stereotype that you have erected in your mind.
2. Stop double-dating: This seems to be the trend but it is a wise thing to abstain from double dating. Rather than date a million women, date a woman like she is one in a million. Give her your affection and attention rather than have several women. A dating relationship should be between two people and not a community meeting.
3. Stop creating issues with girlfriends: Some guys are guilty of this. They are always having issues with their girlfriends because they think she should not offend them. Breaking news: No girl is perfect! Likewise men. When you choose to love a girl, you are not just accepting what you like about her but what you don’t like (her flaws). It’s the whole package.
4. Stop spending excessively on every girl: There is nothing wrong with being generous and providing help to those that are in need. What is wrong is when you start spending on the female gender alone. Doing that will not help you look ‘cool’, it would instead make them want to extort from you. You cannot buy a girl’s sincere respect by money. If you don’t have something profitable to do with money, give it to your mom as a gift.
5. Stop sleeping with every woman: This is self-explanatory. Stop jumping into every ladies pants. If you are guy that has dreams to pursue, you will soon realize that you cannot chase your dreams and everything that you see moving around in skirts. Treat your passion as sacred and let it be for one woman alone. There is no need sending yourself to an early grave or contacting STDs.
6. Stop promising marriage to every girl: Many guys are guilty of this. They believe they can play on the desperation of some women to get them into a relationship or into sex. This is a dangerous game as any of them can accuse you of jilting them. Besides, it won’t do you any good on the long run. All it may do is leave you with a damaged reputation.
7. Stop ogling at every woman you see: While it is natural for men to be attracted to women and to appreciate their good looks, it is actually a bad habit to drool over every woman you see. It shows a lack of self-control and it can be disgusting at times. Learn the habit of looking and taking your eyes off it. What is the essence of ogling over something that you cannot have? Self-control is priceless.
8. Stop hitting women: There is no reason for any man to hit a woman. Irrespective of the level of provocation, a man needs to keep his cool. The first reason is that it is wrong. Secondly, a woman could easily get physical hurt by it. The third reason is who the beating will turn a man to be: a self-beater. A man needs to learn to discipline himself.
9. Stop wasting time on fruitless relationships: If you observe that a relationship is not headed in the right direction, quit it. What is the essence of staying in a relationship that you know is only going to waste your time, resources and energy? Save yourself of all the unnecessary drama and have peace of mind.
10. Stop playing on a woman’s emotion: If you are not interested, kindly say so. There is no reason to pretend to like a woman when you do not or act as though you are interested in her when you are not. Even if she is the one pushing for it and you are not interested, let it go. It may cause temporary problems between the two of you but it can save you from a very mess in the future.